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[annabanana49]

Ok, so they say "third time is a charm", right? Well after I rejoind JC in March 2010 (2nd time) one bad thing after another happen. Lets just say it wasn't a good year. 2 deaths in the family, an illness myself and major financial problems...etc. The latter of the list was the major deciding factor for my non-success on the JC program.

So needless to say, and as sad as I was, I had to stop the program a month into it. (I did lose 12lbs in one month though so that was exciting) Well, it's a new year, 2011! And I'm happy to report that I will be rejoining JC again for the third time this coming Saturday. I'm confident that this will be the winning time. I've thought a lot about my journey and success with JC and realized the first time, I wasn't ready, I was too young and not motivated enough. The second time, I was ready and motivated but unfortunatley, financially restricted so I had to stop. This time, we are ok financially and I am MORE than motivated to start and achieve my goal. (125lbs goal weight, current weight 195)

I am hoping to have all the support of you wonderful girls (and boys) on here. You guys were all such great motivators and supporters when I needed it the last time I was here. I know I will do it this time! I am ready!
I want to feel comfortable in my own skin which hasn't happened in a long while. I also want to show my nosey sister (who is only 10 lbs lighter than me) that I can do this without her snide remarks. I guess proving yourself to a snarky sybling can really be the fuel to your fire and get that engine going, right?

Also, I saw Sara Rue's bikini shoot video blog and she looks AMAZING! I am so proud of her. I have to admit, I went back and read all her blogs and it got me inspired to want to be thin, again! Her journey and life story is just like mine (minus the celebrity status). Like her, I want to be able to wake up, roll out of bed and throw on a pair of jeans and a t-shirt. Not spend hours fretting over what to wear so I can make sure to hide my thighs, stomach and arms! It's so tiring. So miss Sara if you read this, please know that I thank you for being my inspiration and the kick in the butt that I needed!

So here is a good luck cheer to us all as we share the same journey as the lovely Sara Rue.

Love this Rue Crew!!!

~Anna Banana

[suzeeQ2011]

Ok, so they say "third time is a charm", right? Well after I rejoind JC in March 2010 (2nd time) one bad thing after another happen. Lets just say it wasn't a good year. 2 deaths in the family, an illness myself and major financial problems...etc. The latter of the list was the major deciding factor for my non-success on the JC program.

So needless to say, and as sad as I was, I had to stop the program a month into it. (I did lose 12lbs in one month though so that was exciting) Well, it's a new year, 2011! And I'm happy to report that I will be rejoining JC again for the third time this coming Saturday. I'm confident that this will be the winning time. I've thought a lot about my journey and success with JC and realized the first time, I wasn't ready, I was too young and not motivated enough. The second time, I was ready and motivated but unfortunatley, financially restricted so I had to stop. This time, we are ok financially and I am MORE than motivated to start and achieve my goal. (125lbs goal weight, current weight 195)

I am hoping to have all the support of you wonderful girls (and boys) on here. You guys were all such great motivators and supporters when I needed it the last time I was here. I know I will do it this time! I am ready!
I want to feel comfortable in my own skin which hasn't happened in a long while. I also want to show my nosey sister (who is only 10 lbs lighter than me) that I can do this without her snide remarks. I guess proving yourself to a snarky sybling can really be the fuel to your fire and get that engine going, right?

Also, I saw Sara Rue's bikini shoot video blog and she looks AMAZING! I am so proud of her. I have to admit, I went back and read all her blogs and it got me inspired to want to be thin, again! Her journey and life story is just like mine (minus the celebrity status). Like her, I want to be able to wake up, roll out of bed and throw on a pair of jeans and a t-shirt. Not spend hours fretting over what to wear so I can make sure to hide my thighs, stomach and arms! It's so tiring. So miss Sara if you read this, please know that I thank you for being my inspiration and the kick in the butt that I needed!

So here is a good luck cheer to us all as we share the same journey as the lovely Sara Rue.

Love this Rue Crew!!!

~Anna Banana

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[Sulynn]

Hello,

I have not posted here in awhile, but would post regularly a few months back. I lost my Mother at the end of January of this year and she went to the hospital a few days after Xmas. After several tests they found that her lung cancer was no longer stable and was webbed through out her lungs. Hospice was giving her 6 months to live, and wanted the family to find her care. We were scrambling to find care and felt it was best she was at home. She needed 24/7 care and it comes at a high price. This stressed the whole family. She got home and within the first week the 6 months turned into a few months to a few weeks. Then 1/2 of a week later she was given just days. I cared for her the weekend just before she past on that Monday and I can't tell you how hard it was to care for her on my own.

I don't think things will be normal for awhile for me and I am a single parent of a child with autism along with working a full time job that is 50 miles from my home. The last few months I am trying to juggle my Mom's estate, paying her bills, cleaning and repairing her home.

I am sharing all this, because I am about 1/2 pound away from my goal. I started JC in late August and never stopped, despite the things life keeps throwing my way.

I know life will keep throwing me hurdles, and sometimes even mountains to conquer. In the past I have used food to help me get over those hurdles, but JC has really helped me to not use food as a way to cope. (1st time on JC)

I am glad to hear your are starting Jenny again, and I am hoping the struggles I shared will inspire you to stay on track no matter what battles life puts you through. If that doesn't help, remember, being at an unhealthy weight will just add to that battles.


You can do this!!!

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[annabanana49]

Sulynn! First off, welcome back, secondly, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It is never easy to lose someone, especially a parent. And quite frankly, I feel you desserve a medal for taking care of her while working full-time, being a single parent, and sticking to the JC program. You are amazing!

Yes, I agree, I should not let things stand in my way. I should not make excuses for quitting, I competely hold myself responsible, however, I was in a different and less disciplined state back then. It does take time to see your own down falls and I am proud to have recognized my faults and am trudging through to the end this time.

I do enjoy the Rue Crew forum and all the lovely ladies who blog. We keep each other supported which is a nice feeling. I know if I am having a bad day I can turn to these forums for enlightenment and support. This time I know I will make it through because my motivation is clear! I want to be me again!

I commend you for all your energy, drive, motivation and perservation to get through the tough times. I admire women like you. I know you'll lose that last 1/2 lb no problem!

So here's to staying strong and committed. Love and happiness to all. Thank you for your words, which showed me that no matter what happens I can make it through to the other side. And thank you for keeping it real. I appreciate people who are honest without the need to be mean.

Regards,
AB

[Blessed4Life2]

Hello,

I have not posted here in awhile, but would post regularly a few months back. I lost my Mother at the end of January of this year and she went to the hospital a few days after Xmas. After several tests they found that her lung cancer was no longer stable and was webbed through out her lungs. Hospice was giving her 6 months to live, and wanted the family to find her care. We were scrambling to find care and felt it was best she was at home. She needed 24/7 care and it comes at a high price. This stressed the whole family. She got home and within the first week the 6 months turned into a few months to a few weeks. Then 1/2 of a week later she was given just days. I cared for her the weekend just before she past on that Monday and I can't tell you how hard it was to care for her on my own.

I don't think things will be normal for awhile for me and I am a single parent of a child with autism along with working a full time job that is 50 miles from my home. The last few months I am trying to juggle my Mom's estate, paying her bills, cleaning and repairing her home.

I am sharing all this, because I am about 1/2 pound away from my goal. I started JC in late August and never stopped, despite the things life keeps throwing my way.

I know life will keep throwing me hurdles, and sometimes even mountains to conquer. In the past I have used food to help me get over those hurdles, but JC has really helped me to not use food as a way to cope. (1st time on JC)

I am glad to hear your are starting Jenny again, and I am hoping the struggles I shared will inspire you to stay on track no matter what battles life puts you through. If that doesn't help, remember, being at an unhealthy weight will just add to that battles.


You can do this!!!

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((((Sulynn)))) WOW, I am SO sorry about your mom. I have been missing you, but had no idea what was going on with you. I also lost my dad to lung cancer in june of last year....so I know what you went through girl. I was his sole caregiver as well, and watched him pass away, so believe me when I say I know EXACTLY the pain you are going through.

Please pm me anytime if I can help.......and again I am really sorry you are going through this rough time......but I am SO proud of you for pushing through and nearing goal. Alot of ppl would have given in and caved, but you persevered!!!!

[joan719]

Hi Sulynn, Please accept my condolences on the loss of your Mom. I admire your courage in dealing with so many obstacles in your life. You are one brave and strong woman, definitely.

Many people have lost relatives, myself included. But, there is 'no one size, fits all' when it comes to people 'stating that they know what you are going through'. They don't know. I don't know. I only knew how I felt, which might be totally different in another's particular circumstance. Sounds as though you have had a mega amount of responsibility on your shoulders. I cannot imagine what you are going through. You must find what is best for you, how the best way for you to handle your obligations. Many people have spouses or mothers that can help them cope and in most cases, help out. I know what it is like as a single parent, in the face of a devastating loss, to have to handle everything, while also being a good parent to my children.
So, please know that you are in my prayers. I wish you all the comfort that you will need to carry forward. God bless you, Sulynn.