First, Reddy you look awesome! Show off those gams.
Same to you, Jazz. Reddy is right - you are maybe wearing the wrong style. I can't wear a strapless dress for two reasons: (a) even when I was bone thin (a million + years ago), I look like I could play a right guard for the Atlanta Falcons (or a defensive end); (

in spite of (a), I have a chicken neck and a collarbone from he**. So, no strapless for me. But, a one-shoulder or a vee neck and the right necklace do wonders. Also, I am German by genetics. I have a non-waist waist. The old rule (and I mean OLD) of having your waist be 10 inches smaller than your bust and hips has NEVER applied to me. I look best with a shirred bodice or something that does not emphasize my waist.
Anyway - have a great time trying things on! I am taking a trip soon, and I will need a cocktail dress, so I will be doing the same thing. I am looking forward to the journey, not the trip! And you should, too!
LOVE, JILL
Haahaa, is that what that is Jill? I am German also and I have no waist line. At 118 pounds I still have a 29 inch waist. When I first got here it was 37. I just measured and my hips are 34, so I don't have that 10 inch rule either. You made me laugh about the way you look in a strapless dress...hhahaaa. I mostly wear V necks also.