Posted 17 June 2010 - 06:14 AM
Brigit, I think the fact that you realize you are needing treats and rewards is a first start. I think the trick is finding things that support you and don't derail your well-being (financial and physical). I have found a few things I have put in place that I try to remember...a nice bubble bath, an iced-coffee, a movie out with a friend, some pre-slilced cut up fruit (I hate to spend the extra money on pre-cut fruit, but I LOVE it), etc. I think that part of this journey is realizing we use external things to deal with our emotions and if we can find positive things to nurture them, we are golden.
SDG, I am right there with you with the challenges. It is the end of the school year for my daughter, I have a lot of financial stress. along with work and other stress. Plus, to top it all off, I managed not to pay an outstanding parking ticket and my car got towed. The car is really my mother's so I need a letter from her to pick it up, but she is out of town on vacation. It means I am taking cabs to get DD (Dear Daughter) to and from school, and cabs to work. So far in 2 days, I have spent $100 that I really don't have to spare. To throw fuel on the fire, my mother helps with DD's tuition, and her check for tuition is in the car. It was supposed to be dropped off yesterday. So, I feel like a total idiot to boot. Anyway, the good news is that even though I want to PIG out, I had a decadent breakfast today, but I will balance it by skipping the anytime bar and will go on from here.
I think you need to just be nice to yourself, and do what you can while hanging out with the pals. I think bringing workout clothes is always smart. You may get a run in, you might take an extra long walk. I have found that EVERYTHING in moderation with those kinds of getaways is the way to go. I also try to bring stuff that I can eat, so a really nice crudite platter and a fruit salad or something. BBQ can be manageable, so just use your head, drink even more water than usual and remember to enjoy the company! In a month or 2, you will remember hanging with the friends not the food you ate/didn't eat.
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